She continues her response with an explanation of her relationships with Andre and D.O.C., explaining that she didn't go into each situation lightly, before asking how having a child out of wedlock is better than marrying and then later divorcing.

Now I am not one to criticize but if you have to be mother and daddy to your kids and fathers "ARE" in the picture then why not just go to a sperm bank? Why choose a flesh and blood person if procreation is the intention of your relationship.
Her comment about having a child out of marriage is better then marrying and divorcing is simply a crazy ass statement. First off I don't think people enter into marriage with the purpose of divorcing. I think bringing a child into the world should be a conscious choice. Though divorced, I believe in the institution of marriage. I love the thought of having a soulmate (note I did not make that plural) for the rest of my life. To find that special someone, I feel is ultimately the culmination of a wonderful relationship.